Haven’t you gone through times when there was a competition about good looks, who’s the coolest or who’s the most popular at high school? While this is often part of teenage and university years, such things do happen even later on in life, right? As far as physique is concerned, the pressure can be felt at any age and by everyone, even though it does tend to decrease, later on in life! How do you deal with it?
The term ‘body image’ is defined as ‘The subjective picture or mental image of one’s own body’, by the Oxford Dictionaries. While I do support taking care of myself holistically, being well-groomed, happy and enjoying life wholeheartedly, the purpose of my blog post is to focus on how not to give in to undue pressure!
These are 7 tips that help in tackling the issue:
1. Set goals
Set goals for boosting a positive body image. This includes how you approach and develop the right attitude of loving yourself for who you are while making efforts to build a better body image.
2. Prioritize your health
Fitness exercise and a proper diet is indeed key to having a nice-looking body. However, focus on your health primarily, and in the process, you’ll also remain fit and shapely! Working towards a healthy weight will make you look and feel good, with long-term benefits.
3. Be poised
Practice being confident, and it will become your habit! Dress up right for your natural body shape, walk into the room confidently, make eye contact when you talk to people, and so on… Relax and enjoy, live in the moment!
4. Social media
You may have to take a temporary break from social media if you’re feeling overwhelmed. Sometimes the pressure may be coming from what you see or what others are saying online.
5. Circle of support
Having help and support from your family/friends could do much in assisting you. Talk about your doubts and apprehensions to a close one and ask for an unbiased opinion. For example, when trying out new styles of clothing, ask your best friend if your new dress or shirt suits you, before going out. Should you pair it off with different shoes? Should you wear something else instead?
6. Daily journaling
Practice self-care and self-love. This is an important aspect of body confidence. Keep a journal and express gratitude. Documenting your progress and examining your notes, will help you in better understanding yourself. You’ll also be able to take calculated actions.
7. Seek professional help
While my blog only serves as a means for information, in case of need, do consult a professional in the field.
To sum up, body confidence is about feeling great, the way you are. While you make efforts to maintain good health, feeling and looking gorgeous (or handsome, for my male readers) comes naturally and from within! Would you like to share your tips? Please do so. Thank you!
Photo courtesy: Canva (featured photo) & Pexels (within the blog text).
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This is brilliant. I recently started running and I’ve written something that totally reinforces your message. I wasn’t expecting to experience a mental/emotional barrier. I was ready and prepared to ‘feel the burn’ but as a confident woman who is sociable and writes about women’s strength and value, I never expected to feel insecure. https://sarahwrotesomething.com/2019/04/14/running-shoes/
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Thank you Sarah!
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This is a great post. I think we can all read a refresher on the important aspects of achieving confidence.
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Thanks Mary!
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Nice to meet you, Sharvi and thanks for following my blog!
All the best to you
Laureen
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My pleasure & same to you, Laureen!
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Great article and you make me think we need a: take a break from social media day (or even week). Unplug and plug into you.
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Thank you!
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and have been there too, but healthy life style and goals helped me a lots!
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That’s great! Thanks for your ideas.
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This was something very different and yet perfectly related to. The choice of words and metaphors is wonderful and makes everything seem so realistic. The way how women in this society are treated and grief-stricken is completely and beautifully portrayed. I could feel my eyes moisten while reading some lines. What a masterpiece!! Kudos to you!!
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Peace & love!
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You are welcome
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Thank you! I appreciate your thoughtful response.
Such an awesome way of replying someone. Thanks. Again
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I’m available to read your post at my convenient time.
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You are welcome
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Hey 🙂 It is very true! We must prioritise our health…that way the outcome will be always #BeYOUtiful ❤
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You’re so right, Luís! Thank you.
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Very good advice. I think things were easier when I was young as we didn’t have people to compare ourselves with from the media. True there were still our fellow school pupils and some nasty things said but the pressure wasn’t there to make oneself ‘perfect’. As we age, we realise how unimportant a lot of it is, but when young it’s very hard.
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So true! Thanks for your comment.
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Setting goals is such an important part of achieving your fitness goals. It’s important that people set goals that are realistic and that they come up with a plan that allows them to acheive those goals.
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Thanks for your tips, Jacinta!
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Fantastic advice! Thank you for sharing.
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My pleasure, Charlotte!
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I find myself taking a beak from social media a few times a year. Unfortunately it’s too easy to compare yourself to others and that’s never healthy.
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That’s so right, Vonetta!
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This is a great post and thank you for sharing this with us. I often found myself comparing with celebrities but also with friends on social media and I feel bad. But I find it useful to type “celebrities with cellulite” “with no makeup” etc hehehe then I feel much more confident. Self-love is really important in order to feel good and live the best life we all deserve!
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Best one
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Thank you, Mayur!
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I’m so glad you mentioned “social media” as a way to be more confident. I personally find myself comparing myself to others way too much. Lately I’ve been learning to love myself more for who I am.
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You’re right!
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Obviously you follow what you preach and others do the same from ones experience great tips
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Thank you, Nisha!
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Good advice
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Thank you!
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